I was involved in legal proceedings with my former tax accountant after he charged
me more than we had agreed. I refused to pay so he sued me. When the court proceedings
commenced, my attorney presented my arguments. I also showed the court my history
of on-time payments with other suppliers. I felt that the judge understood my arguments,
and that I was going to win my case.
At a certain point, I felt the judge’s sympathy swing towards the accountant. Anxious
to understand what was happening, I turned to MY RELATIONSHIP. I realized that in terms
of Kinetic Intelligence, it takes two to tango. In other words, if I have a problem
with someone, I am part of the problem.
In a bid to neutralize my impact on the judge, I decided to check my relationship
with him via MY RELATIONSHIP. This resulted in my discovery that I have a disturbance
(orange halo, see figure 1) that is the cause of the judge’s changed response to
me.
I realized that this could cause me to lose the case. The red halo (figure 2) showed
that my relationship with the judge would not be a successful one, with the blockage
lasting 60 days. (It was later explained to me that if I didn’t have this problem,
MY RELATIONSHIP would not have shown a red halo, but an empty pentagon, which signifies
that there is no solution right now. In such a situation, I would have known that
there was nothing I could do to change my situation.)
I did not tell my attorney about this, but I asked to have the case postponed for
3 months to give me time to neutralize whatever was not functioning properly inside
me.
In order to get rid of the impediment, I turned to MY COACH, so that I could discover
why the judge no longer trusted me. Once I managed to get rid of the blocking elements
inside me, the court case resumed in front of the same judge. When we left the courtroom,
my attorney told me how surprised he was that the judge had changed his mind so
dramatically, and had found in my favor without the attorney having to present half
the material he had prepared. I am really thankful that by using these applications,
I was able to prevent a very expensive and embarrassing defeat in my court case.
The partner’s positive parameters
The parameter that explains which behavior could cause the relationship to fail
The parameter that shows what will be the result of this relationship in the immediate
term.