We have a 16 year old daughter Jasmine and two adult sons. We always tried hard
to give the children everything they needed, and we worked hard to give them a good
education. The trouble is that Jasmine became uninterested in her studies, and her
work seriously deteriorated. For us as parents, the frustration lay in not knowing
what we did wrong. This led to arguments between my husband and me, each of us blaming
the other for what had happened. The atmosphere at home got really bad.
Then a friend told me about the galamind application that helps you tackle frustrations
and problems. So I signed up for MY COACH, and asked the question: “Why am I not
able to communicate with Jasmine?
Why am I unable to inject more understanding between us?”
I discovered that I had emotional addiction, the kind of addiction that seeks expression
in external emotional reward. This comes from not feeling good about my personality,
which is why I didn’t behave well towards Jasmine. I was shocked to discover that
I had not seen the bigger picture. I was gently pushed to change my thinking in
the direction of emotional focus. I had to learn how to stop being influenced by
others, to stop appeasing them, in order to prove that I am OK.
Decision following realization helped me understand that if I undertook to change
my way of thinking, I had to stick with my decision by working out the right timing
for changing my behavior with Jasmine. The final piece of the puzzle on my journey
to new understanding was positivity and joy. It seems that I had lost my joie de
vivre, both with my husband and with my daughter.
Over the course of 10 weeks, I used MY COACH just once a day. Everything has changed.
I am no longer fighting with Jasmine or with my husband (who has also started using
MY COACH.) Jasmine and I are good friends, we talk a lot, and she credits us with
her decision to start using MY COACH and MY RELATIONSHIP.
- The blockage inside me
- The new way of thinking that the application suggested
- The new way of understanding linked to thinking
- The solution that the application suggested – and that solved the problem.